Temperance means not abstaining from something but doing it the right amount and no more. It’s synonymous with self-control, a basic life skill. Athletes undergo intense self-control in race training, making a ready metaphor for the Christian’s sanctification (1 Corinthians 9:25-26). 

Most people have established regular self-control, but are then shocked by the moments that reveal their true spiritual condition. The Apostle Paul says, “I have the desire to do what is right but not the ability to carry it out” (Romans 7:18). He ends that chapter crying out that he’s a wretched man in need of Jesus to save him.

God saves wretched people and empowers them to live in righteousness.

Right Theology

Romans 8 is bookended with no condemnation in the first verse and no separation in the last verse. God forgives Christians and secures them in his love through Christ.  The purpose of this is “in order that the righteous requirement of the law might be fulfilled in us” (Romans 8:4). God saves people, actually expecting them to live according to his commands. 

Right Mindset

God saves the believer by grace through faith in Jesus. Christians also become virtuous by grace. Self-control is listed as fruit of the Spirit in Galatians 5:23. We cannot do this on our own. We must invite God’s work in us by setting our minds on the Spirit where life and peace are (v. 6).

Right Relationship

The Holy Spirit’s ministry is personal. He dwells inside the Christian. The Spirit powerfully raised Jesus and will do the same for your mortal body (8:11). Welcome his work.

Taking It Home: Try inviting the Holy Spirit into the moments you lack self-control. Actually talk to him in weakness. Then obey his response.